A warm coastal café-style room with an arched opening, cushioned bench, round wooden table and view across a quiet beach

finding your way – together

Couples counselling, family counselling, and individual counselling in Christchurch and online across New Zealand.

Kristen Tandy, NZAC Registered Counsellor in Christchurch
About Kristen

A relational approach to meaningful change

Kia ora, I’m Kristen. If you’re thinking about starting therapy, there’s a good chance part of you is dreading it a little, and I completely get it. I know how uncomfortable it can be to sit with a stranger and talk about the things that are hardest to say. I believe that we are wired for connection, and therapy with me focuses on how to better connect with not only others, but ourselves.

My primary focus is couples and relationship therapy, informed by certification in Relational Life Therapy (RLT), training in the Gottman Method, and systemic family therapy. I work with relationship conflict, communication challenges, intimacy, parenting, and the influence of family-of-origin experiences on adult relationships.

I also provide individual counselling using an integrative approach that includes ACT, CBT, DBT, EMDR, and Internal Family Systems (IFS). As a certified Perinatal and Postpartum Mental Health (PMH-C) practitioner, I support clients navigating early parenthood and all of its challenges including anxiety, trauma, life transitions, and identity.

I’m originally from California and now practise here in Aotearoa New Zealand. I hold a Bachelor’s in Psychology and a Master’s in Counseling and Career Development, and I’ve spent the last five-plus years working with individuals, couples, and families.

Training and registration

Credentials

Masters in Counselling

NZAC Registered Counsellor

Relational Life Therapy Certified

Systemic Family Therapy Trained

EMDR Trained

PMH-C

Counselling services

Support for people and relationships

In-person counselling in Christchurch and online counselling across Aotearoa New Zealand, with an approach tailored to your circumstances, relationships and goals.

Individual Counselling

Individual counselling for anxiety, trauma, identity, life transitions and personal growth. Sessions draw from ACT, CBT, DBT, EMDR and Internal Family Systems according to your needs.

Couples Counselling

Couples counselling for relationship conflict, communication, intimacy, parenting and recurring patterns. Kristen’s work is informed by Relational Life Therapy, the Gottman Method and systemic family therapy.

Family Counselling

Family counselling focused on the family system rather than individual therapy with children. Sessions support families to improve communication, resolve conflict and build healthier relationships together.

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Warm coastal-inspired counselling room with a rattan chair and plants